Microwave Dinners and First Impressions

This is an older blog.

Honestly, i find it funny. Relationships that is. How people find themselves compatible with other people for all the wrong reasons. How girls can go for the baller kid in opposition to the kid whos kinda caught in the middle of the background and crowd. Stereotypes of cheerleaders going for jocks, white girls going for surfers dudes etc. Thats seems all to high school to me and baby im strictly college minded. I was having an early dinner with a friend of mine and she happened to say that she wanted to learn how to cook so she can be prepared for later in life. Being a person who wants to cook professionally, i offered to teach her but also recomended getting a husband who can cook. (not hinting anything at all really) Thinkin ahead i just think our generation is reletively screwed when it comes to having our families. Alot of my male friends process of cooking is popping a microwave into a microwave or heating up some leftover shit they had the night before. As far as girls, i know a lot of girls who are good at baking, but not knowledgable enough for me to ask them to make me dinner anytime soon. This means when people end up hooking up and getting together, having families etc. i expect to see a lot of them on their way to a local restaurant. Hopefully their parents teach them how to cook shit. Dont be scare of fire, fire only hurts when it touches you.I just think the whole process of finding a person to be your counterpart is kind bogus. People tend to have high expectations, high standards, high everything. Basically if your not good lookin, cute, hot, sexy, big titties, fat ass, big wee wee (no homo) buff, athletic, baller, laced up, fresh kicks fresh shirt, fresh pants, nice car..... its pretty much slim pickin's. Not to say that all people are shallow that way, but its true. Admit it. With a first impression, you may pay attention of the small things (taste in music, personality, all that good shit) but you wouldnt really find talk to them unless you dig deep in your shallow side and find them whichever of the list above. Ill be honest, first impressions are usually based on "damn shes cute" or "damn baby got cakes." dont lie. its been said. its been noticed. I just think thats how life is. If it werent meant to be that way, people would lower their standards, go on a blind date or go on one of those matchmaking websites. Ill just hope that never happens to me or anyone i know. Your better than that. Go to a party or a club or some shit, go get fucked up and find the balls to say wsup to your local fine ass beezy or dude or which ever way you swing. no homo. People tend to either send or recieve mixed messages. Whether its some guy or girl that wants to hang out frequently (sorry man i had to bring it up) or people getting too clingy, people leading other people on, people just need to communicate. I was never one to completely communicate but i guess thats key to developing friendships and even relationships with people. Tell that girl that your thinking something else or tell that dude no homo or tell that one person something you need to tell them. If it affects your friendship, relationship, or whatever, then they werent good friends with you in the first place. But theres a time or a place. You never know what will happen anyways until you pull the trigger and do it. (which reminds me to stop being a hypocrite)You find the best of friends in the most unlikely situations. You find so much in common with people or generally you just enjoy their company and its funny to see that you never really expected it and always wonder why certain aspects of your life isnt like that. You never have those best times with your good friends and the friends that you thought were there slowly but surely drift away into thats one person you once know or once had something with or whatever. In a sense its really sad that neither of you have time for each other or maybe just that one person doesnt really talk that much anymore but its just something you have to live with. A learning experience for that matter. Typically, people you had earlier in life and your experiences wiht them shape you to be the kind of person you are right now. Whether your time with them way hell or the greatest time ever, their distance just changes you to either be more cautious to make sure the friends you have now dont leave or make you care less and less. Either way, after it all goes down the only person you can trust is yourself. Its sad to say but only you can make it happen when nothing is going your way. Have you left on the kitchen floor after yakkin your brains out the night before. Find those friends that put you on the couch and take your shoes off so they dont draw on your face. The ones that will drive you all the way home and put your in your bed but not really putting you in your jammies cuhz that would be kinda weird. Just keep track of those friends, those are keepers. On a last note: if your anti drug is drugs, either you were too high to stop or you were too stupid and lazy to figure out something else to do. Drugs arent supposed to be a necessity, just for holidays, parties and road trips. LOL jki kinda ran out of shit to say. Be easy, stay up, and stay away from dirty places. Thats how people get the swine flu.